Dear Ksn Family;
My best wishes to all frens.
I am arrested by a strange and odd kind of Situation.Its 'bout my dear Fren, whom I know for the last 25 yrs. As far as I know him, if sen Rs doesn't betray me, he is one hell of a person. He is a true gentleman. He is so cautious that he takes every possible way as not to hurt any person's ego. He gets uneasy at the sight of others situation and problems. He tries helping needy people as much as his life can hold. So, recently his was seriously taken ill and had to move out of state for treatment and someone to look into things was essential. But amazingly his sisters and brother happened to be working out station and no one of the children could get leave, so to be with the mother during treatment . Ultimately this Fren of mine being eldest, left his job not thinking 'bout his future, ra back home with children and wife to be beside his mother.So,after 3,4 months of treatment, mom wAs stable. Now my Fren had to do some work inorder to support his lively hood. So. He took up a small business of his own trade. He had no idea what was round the corner. So, things started taking ugly turn.Looking in terms of earning, he made less in context of his other family members. He usually told me that he was unable to contribute anything in building their house coz whatever he made was barely enough for his wife and children's education. So. now and then he used to take help from his mother coz he had huge faith in her. Unfortunately, things crash down upon you, when you are running through bad times. Eventually his mom started talking against him with bro & sists. In turn they started looking down on him. He openly humiliated in front of his wife and s children. He never uttered a word coz he was afraid his wife and may become homeless. Recently his sister under the influence of his mother started to torturing him and told him to leave. And the mother would just listen coz after all it was her call. She had forgotten that his eldest son had sacrificed his lively hood, why should she, she was blinded by money and ego. This Fren of mine he comes to me for advice. But I can't say anything. His trust in his mother and own blood has destroyed him. He tells me that he cannot even look straight into his children's eye while speaking, the same with wife. I see him destroying himself day after day. But his mom and sists, seems to be enjoying his helplessness. Yesterda, he came to me and said he knows some illegal his brother and sisters take inorder to work in their offices. He said that he was in such a situation either he had get out of the domination or end his miserable life. He told me that he would go to the law and expose the weakness of his bro, sists.
When he told me this in a way he was right, they need to be punished for moral rape they have enjoyed so much. I am confused, so thought that I would write this situation and ask for your valuable advice, I helping him fight back to gain his self respect.
So, dear frens and elders, whoever reads this post kindly vote between 1) fight back for self respect and confident. OR 2) keep quit and carry on with the situation, mustering his self respect and humiliation .
Thank you frens.
Taking you for in giving your valuable time and advising him.
Lets not kill human right and self respect for fake and betraying Family.
Note:- Plez forgive me for any mistakes discovered. While writing this my was circling into relation, which is said to be most holy of relation, " MOTHER ' CHILD". May be money is oddly enough takin place of mother- son relation, brother- sister relation; brother- brother. HOW CAN RELATION BE SO WEAK; " MOTHER - CHILDREN"